Anonymous asked: would you ever date a girl who didn't drink? or wanted to not have sex till marriage due to certain reasons. Not emotional reasons. I feel that most guys wouldn't.

ok.

so.

These are two big things.

sex.

drinking.

rad.

lets do this.

i love to drink.  however its not for everyone.  and that is great bc it means that there is more alcohol left for me.

i love…umm…being physical.  its the greatest.  but it shouldnt be taken lightly.

in fact, getting naked with someone else is a big deal.  ive found that you should reserve it only for those worthy of naked-you.

it is a pretty intimate thing.

naked you.

standing there.

no photoshop.

just your body.

harsh lighting.

or no lighting.

all your weird things on your body.

like all my scars.

my crap tattoos.

all the things you are insecure about.

its a big deal.

and then on top of all that, THE PART WHERE YOU DO IT.

WHERE YOU BANG.

WHERE YOU PRETEND TO MAKE BABIES.  UNLESS YOU WANT BABIES, IN WHICH CASE YOU ARE MAKING BABIES.

YO!

i mean.

its a big deal.

anyways.

so, i dont like when people diss on people who choose not to drink, or choose not to f*ck.  its ok that they dont want to drink.  more beer for me.  and its DEFINITELY OK IF THEY DONT WANT TO F*CK.  MORE, umm…BANGING FOR ME.

this attitude is the same idea as getting pissed at people for what they are wearing.

let other people choose for themselves.

you do you.

they will do no one.

ill do me.

and her.

kidding.

but definitely her.

she fine.

she da finest.

ok.

now keeping that in mind.

i might find it hard to reconcile the drinking thing.  bc if my wife doesnt rage she might find my raging to be…umm, uncouth?

or perhaps ungentlemanly.

which is not how id like to be perceived of my wife/future mother of my children.

the sex thing.  well.  if the girl is rad, i’d consider waiting.  but, thats a tall order.  its not out of the realm of possibilites though.

i mean.

she must be a bomb ass kisser.  and super foot massage giver.

and great dancer.

maybe a great singer.

have a rad family.

be smart, creative…BLAH BLAH BLAH.

now if both of these qualms (no sex, no drinking) are in the woman who im dating, i might pause for a second.

if our values dont necessarily line up, then maybe we have different outlooks on life.

these things like sex, money, alcohol, religion, family, are all clues into how you want to live your life.  its where your values and priorities lie.

if they arent in sync, then we shouldnt be dating.

bc those things will never change. 

in conclusion,

yes, id consider it, but she should consider someone who is more on her plane.  i am a drunk philanderer.  that might not gel with her.

sincerely,

alex